{"id":2960,"date":"2018-05-04T07:04:24","date_gmt":"2018-05-03T21:04:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/irisherself.com\/blog\/?p=2960"},"modified":"2018-05-05T06:16:51","modified_gmt":"2018-05-04T20:16:51","slug":"internal-wealth","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/irisherself.com\/blog\/internal-wealth\/","title":{"rendered":"Internal wealth"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Reading about human relationships, and the essence required to push through. According to psychological research, the greatest emotional need is security. Yet, trying to live in alignment with your goals and values often conflicts with the complexities of reality.<\/p>\n<p>Wanting approval is a normal thing, but <em class=\"markup--em markup--p-em\">needing\u00a0<\/em>approval is very different. A <em>need<\/em> for approval leads to working on projects one is not excited about. Leads to eating unhealthy foods one doesn\u2019t want to eat. Leads to ruminating and obsessing about problems and regrets one could easily remove or fix. A quest for perfectionism actually creates procrastination. Perfectionism is about an unhealthy need for approval. It\u2019s about a fear of failure and looking incompetent. It\u2019s the opposite of courage. And it\u2019s the opposite of mastery.<\/p>\n<p>Jody Williamson and Stephen Covey say &#8220;a<em class=\"markup--em markup--blockquote-em\">n abundance mentality springs from internal security, not from external rankings, comparisons, opinions, possessions, or associations.<\/em><em>You must believe you are independently wealthy, and that you don\u2019t NEED a particular prospect. When you truly believe and know you are fine and secure without THIS relationship or THIS opportunity, then you can act honestly and genuinely.<\/em>&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I am in the process of establishing just that. Independence, and inner wealth. Freedom, from the need of approval.<\/p>\n<p>I so hope I have don&#8217;t cut <strong><em>all<\/em><\/strong> ties to achieve this.<\/p>\n<p>Wish me luck.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Reading about human relationships, and the essence required to push through. According to psychological research, the greatest emotional need is security. Yet, trying to live in alignment with your goals and values often conflicts with the complexities of reality. Wanting approval is a normal thing, but needing\u00a0approval is very different. A need for approval leads [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[16],"class_list":["post-2960","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-about","tag-performance-philosophy"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/irisherself.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2960","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/irisherself.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/irisherself.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/irisherself.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/irisherself.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2960"}],"version-history":[{"count":15,"href":"https:\/\/irisherself.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2960\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2976,"href":"https:\/\/irisherself.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2960\/revisions\/2976"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/irisherself.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2960"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/irisherself.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2960"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/irisherself.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2960"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}